INTRODUCTION


There seems to be a scarcity of UK retirement blogs out there (other than those proffering financial advice) and in the absence of my being able to read about other people's experiences, I instead offer you my own "Great Big Retirement Adventure."

My husband (Mister E) and I have moved from the initial concept through the planning stages to implementation and this site is intended to record the whole process. What I am seeking from retirement is now very different to what I thought I was planning and has gradually developed into a quest for fitness and a desire for simplification, with a transition away from both a highly organised lifestyle and the personality traits reflecting a pedantic professional career. Indeed I recently described myself as "a goofy idiot" who enjoys smiling at sunflowers; a far cry from the pre-retirement professional and an indication of just how far I have travelled.

Please visit from time to time and do add your comments. The blog is in reverse chronological order but popular posts and those highlighting our journey are specifically pinpointed below on the right hand side together with a list of topics covered. Alternatively you may prefer to look at the summary or wisdom we have acquired or even our have done list with its retirement atlas and dip in and out of the blog using the links given.




Monday, 31 July 2017

Off Colour



I was not myself at all yesterday, struck down, I suspect, by a mild dose of food poisoning. No appetite, a painful tummy ache, totally overcome by fatigue with weak joints and an unending wave of nausea, I took to my bed. Safe in its confines, I listened first to the stomach fire brigade spray its hoses of bile on the malcontented and noisy dragon beneath and then waited patiently whilst the sewage cleaning operators in the intestine did their work. In the meantime the extremities resembled the polar ice cap as I shivered my way through the day.

At least in retirement there is no longer any pressure to drag yourself out of bed to fulfil commitments in an office diary. However, yesterday was a Sunday so I didn't even have that thought as solace for my condition.

 It is unpleasant being out of sorts but (touch wood) I am fortunate in generally enjoying good health.

As we age, however, I know that it may not always be so. Already wear and tear on vital knee joints, not to mention bursitis and tendonitis can at the least be irritating. Maybe the underlying conditions were always there, certainly old skiing pulls and strains are chief suspects, but it seems only now through attempts at a more physical lifestyle in retirement that they are coming to the fore. 

Certainly there is much to be said for recognising your limitations even when it is sad to have to acknowledge them and  realise that there are some things that it's just not wise to do anymore. Moving on through retirement, reality begins to catch up. 

With reality comes an understanding that life is no longer infinite and time has run out for me for marathon running, mountain climbing, bungee jumping and a host of other activities that I'm sure I really would never have tried anyway. You will note that I am not yet excusing my partaking of the activities that bring enjoyment. However, that knowledge of the finite can make it seem that the pressure is on to fit in everything  that you want to do, before infirmity creeps up still further.

I guess that's where continuous planning and the much berated bucket list come in. To stop retirement dreams becoming unachievable or giving way to the dreaded drudgery of routine, regular reviews, flexibility and in some instances lateral thinking are needed. 

Forgive me, I'm now off to undertake a rational assessment...




6 comments:

  1. Don't despair - a year ago I hurt my knees from a combination of too much cycling and trail running. I thought I would have to give up both cycling and running but hoped I could keep walking and hiking. All through the winter I did physio exercises for my knees with no results. However, with lots of walking and 2-3 sessions of yoga daily my knees are doing much better and I've been out on the biking trails with a huge smile on my face. Yoga has also helped me with lower back pain. I've steered clear of running so far but who knows?

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    1. I completely agree with you. Exercise has helped ease stiffness that might otherwise have rendered me an early couch potato and at the same time helped build muscle which in turn keeps joints stabilised. However, all those things that put extreme pressure on the knees (lunges, squats, running, skiing and some zumba moves) have proved to be deleterious but might make a good blog post once I've got the medical verdict.

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  2. I'm sorry that you haven't been feeling well! While I get sick far less frequently since I've been retired (nothing like sick school kids to pass illness on) when I do get sick now, it is not casually! I hope you are on the mend!

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    1. Thanks you and yes, normal service resumed in full after a miserable 24 hours. Sadly the older we get, the deeper we can succumb and the slower recovery times can sometimes be.

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  3. Glad you are feeling better Caree - when it comes to those joints - "Use it or lose it!" so they say, but don't overdo it. I should take my own advice . . .

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