Stay at Home or Not

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I'm not sure which is worse: blatant lying, government by slogans and mantras or sheer cronyism. It doesn't matter really; they all treat the public as fools.

It's ridiculous when you think about it because the public, all the way through the current crisis, has shown great patience and understanding. Both, of course are undeserved by a Government that has done a very good job only in giving the impression that it's been acting too late every step of the way or alternatively hasn't had a clue what it is doing by making up strategy (and now it would seem interpretation of its own guidance) as it goes along.

I think it's fair to say that over the last 48 hours frustration has finally bubbled to the surface. For the first time this afternoon,  I have seen sensible and intelligent neighbours begin to flout the restrictions and who can blame them? 

After all, where is the sense, for instance, in being able to meet another person in a public place so long as you keep 2 metres apart, but not be able to enter their garden? Well, thanks to Dominic Cummings, forget the garden because, in my street, it now seems we are back to open house season.

It would all feel overwhelmingly frustrating, except, to quote Benjamin Franklin, "Out of adversity comes opportunity."

With the Prime Minister leading today's National Briefing, I had the perfect chance to do my ironing whilst distracting myself from the mind-numbing banality of the task by showering the TV screen with incandescent rage.

It's only taken from the beginning of lockdown, but finally the ironing basket is completely empty! Regardless of what my neighbours are up to, I need to stay at home more often. It looks as though I may even get that opportunity if all the travel and mingling that is now going to take place has the disastrous consequences we've been constantly warned about.

Comments

Treaders said…
You mean "the Dominic Cummings" who it would seem has already flouted his own lockdown rules twice???? Bunch of hypocrites all of them!
24 May 2020 at 19:28
Caree Risover said…
That's the one but what's really galling is the way senior figures in government are now twisting the guidance and what they have said in the past to defend him. They really do take us for complete idiots.
24 May 2020 at 19:39
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