Just a Little Treat

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The youngest and I took advantage of the warm and balmy weather today to visit Richmond (North Yorkshire) and eat freshly made ice-cream!


Do I feel guilty?  Of course not because I can piously say that I had already written off all the calories at an exercise class earlier in the day.



It is going to take a long time before I fully appreciate that my new life does give the freedom to treat myself to an afternoon out every day if the fancy takes. However, I am going to have to attend an awful lot of exercise classes if I want an ice cream every day too! 

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