The Dentist Calls

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I received a telephone call the other night at 9pm from the dentist. Of course, I thought he only worked 9am until 5pm. In theory he does but, and I can guarantee that this sounds familiar to so many people, especially those who run their own businesses or have professional obligations: he was catching up with administration before he leaves on holiday.

Oh dear, I remember those demonic days far too clearly.


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Debra Journet said…
I hope he had good news!
21 March 2015 at 20:52
Caree Risover said…
If my agreement to change my appointment was good news then he certainly did!
22 March 2015 at 22:35
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