Mister E Takes the Plunge

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Mister E has taken the plunge - he has retired! Now I thought we were in for a display of synchronised diving, leaving work at the same time, but opportunity called and he seized it, to finish on Friday. 

 I have another six and half weeks to go, so have spent the weekend giving instruction in the art of cleaning and tidying. I think it has fallen on deaf ears, but we shall see. It would be a shame to fall out before we both retire!

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